Though of the day...

I think as a whole, our society is slowing trying to change what the word love actually means. It really seems to me, that it has become a materialistic term more than that of an emotional term. I find that I myself, can no longer really understand what people are trying to convey when they talk to me about their relationship issues.


Two things that I have told people in the past week.

1) If the person was to become blind, would they still love you?

Now, take this as an additive to the fact of, would the person you are with now, still love you the exact same if they could no longer see you, not in the breaking up sense, but the physical can no longer see the world with their eyes, love you still the same. If it happened to you, would you love them just the same as well?

2) Try not to play the game.

Yesterday, I told someone about a person who I currently have an interest in, and I told them that earlier in the day I was thinking, and I thought to myself, 'Even if I state that I do not want to play games to try and win this person over, I am in fact playing the game already.' And It is a rather difficult disillusionment to understanding what I would have to say is the game, and what defines it.


Look at the most in-love couples you know for inspiration.

Chances are, they are not all pairings of perfectly gorgeous people. Spend time with the couples, and see how their lives are richer and happier thanks to the relationship. Ask yourself if you would rather have that love in your life with someone who complements you overall... or if it’s worth holding out in the hopes that you’ll meet a supremely attractive soul mate who just happens to have all the other qualities you seek, too. The choice is yours.*

I leave you with one of my favorite quotes off all time today.

"But if castles in the sky are built on sands of illusions then we won't be able to bring them down to earth and live in them.'"

Until next time, a moment of time

~S.J.

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**Can tell I was half asleep still when I puslished this one, oops.