I like for the most part to think that I am a good person. Yes everyone has their moments and such, but I feel that I do right by most people. If you have done something wrong, and it made me upset, then I would tell you what you did to you. And I feel that you would do the same to me.
Maybe you don't like confrontation, maybe you don't like making someone else upset. But do you think its right to just all the sudden not talk to someone, and not tell them why?? If you have an argument or a fight with someone then yea, you might stop talking to them. But to just stop all the way. I don't really understand why you would do this, unless I wronged you in some way.
If I send you a message or call you, it means something, that I value you as a person. I'm not calling to tell you about me, I call or text to find out more about you and how you are. Maybe then you ask me how my day is or how I am doing in general after, but I'm more inclined to hear from you.
When someone says hello to you, say hello back. If your busy and can't talk then tell the person that you can't talk right now or that your not in the mood. Of course I'm going to ask if your ok, that's what people who care about other people do. It's not that I want to bother you by saying hi again, if you was to say hello to me, and I ignored you, and you cared about me wouldn't you want to make sure that I am ok?? Why would you even think about getting upset about someone saying hello to you, or hey, or hi or any greeting at all.
I always found this somthing that has bothered me for a while, say a person doesn't call into work to say they will be late or can't come in today. Your coworkers get mad at you, they get upset, yet they don't think that you got possibly hurt, or a family member got rushed to the ER, they don't even bother to call you at all. It just is always a thing I think about, if I got mad at you over somthing and that was my final thought of you was of me being upset, that would be a big regret for the rest of my time.
So, don't be upset with people, why...why would you?? You only get to live here on this planet for so long, for such a short time. Why waste part of your time being upset at someone. It seems like childish things, most people I know are over 21, and the kids that I do know, don't have the comprehension to fully understand the realness behind the concepts of love and hate. Are you telling me by acting in the way you do that you're really just a child still?? It how it seems to me.
I'm not upset that you stopped talking to me, I'm more saddened by the fact that you wont tell me why, or just have not yet. So let me know if something I have ever said or done has effected you in a bad way, do the same as I would do for you, but when you don't let me ask you, ie you don't respond back to my hello, then I have nothing to go on.
Until next time, a moment of time.
~S.J.
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